Have you ever met someone and instantly clicked with them? As if you felt their Energy immediately connect with yours in the most unimaginable way? This has only happened to me a handful of times throughout my life. I usually need to warm up to people because well, you just never know these days. Life has shown me that if you become too attached, people are bound to hurt you. That’s a mind state that I’m working on abolishing—but that is another conversation for another day.
Recently, I have found it easier to connect with people in conversation. Keep in mind that I’m fairly shy and super awkward at best. But somehow, I have been able to come out of my shell bit by bit. I’m all about a vibe these days. I have found myself more open to having conversations with stranger or about topics that make me uncomfortable.
I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason—whether it makes sense right now or not. And sometimes that might mean that certain people are placed in your life for the moment—and perhaps that isn’t the time frame that you had hoped for. But life has a strange way of working itself out and at some point, you will realize that the person you thought you wanted more time with was only meant to be there for the amount of time that the Universe allowed. You will see that even in your disappointment, you took something away from the situation and were able to grow from it.
I tend to collect things—including connections with other people. Real connections don’t happen often for me—not in the way that I’m referring to in this post. I rarely gravitate towards someone naturally and instantly find comfort in their Energy. It just doesn’t happen often for me. I am a true Capricorn when it comes to relationships. I need consistency and communication. And no matter how comfortable I might feel in a person’s Energy-if I don’t have these two things—I can’t stick around.
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results. And trying to force someone into being who you need them to be when it isn’t their time, isn’t healthy for either parties. The Vibe might be right, but the time isn’t. And that’s okay. I don’t wish bad on anyone that I thought I could be close with on a Cosmic level. We’re all here to live our Truth’s and Rise.
Lessons and Blessings.